Quiet Time with Horses

By Terry Golson

I’m working on a blogpost about training theory and how to introduce a positive approach to riders and horses who are still at traditional barns. I’m thinking about behavior and reinforcement and what’s really important. At the same time, I’m preparing for my first recognized dressage show of the season this coming weekend. I’m fine-tuning Tonk’s canter departures and turns up the center line. Sometimes the big picture gets lost when the task at hand is all about precision and the pressure is on. I was looking over photos to use for my blog and I came across two that put it all back into perspective for me. As a trainer I focus on what is rewarding to the horse. But what about me?

I stable Tonk at a barn with only a few boarders. I’m often the only one there. A couple of weeks ago I arrived on a chilly late afternoon. The sun was streaming into the windows. Maggie, a horse who knows how to relax, had positioned herself to make the most of the waning sun.



Cider opted for warmth on his head.



This is my reward for all of my hard work – a barn of content horses dozing in the late afternoon sun. Of course I still want that perfect trot to canter transition, but the big picture? This is it.


Tonk in stall

What’s your favorite place to have quiet time?

6 thoughts on “Quiet Time with Horses

  • connie moreau

    When I was a little girl on the dairy farm, my spot was the hay manger in the calf barn, the calves would munch on hay, grain, and snuffle in my hair as I laid there. I had bottle fed them as babies, that was my farm job and they considered me their friend I guess…peace and quiet time. Now it is sitting on the lawn swing watching the chickens be busy!

  • Mona

    Good luck this weekend. Wish I could be there to watch you and Tonka, as it is I’m out in California. Great pictures. Love your new blog.

  • Jan

    Have a great time, fingers crossed for a high score. My favourite quite time in sitting under a shady tree with a cup of tea watched my Girls scratch around in the garden, they will often come and lay down by me wings stretched out sun bathing…:)
    Maggie was euthanized by the vet this afternoon, it was a hard decision as she was still strong and eating well, but her prolapse was staying out and when the vet examined her she said it was a definite internal problem as you suspected and it was the kindest thing to do.

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