Starting From a Safe Place

By Terry Golson


The work that I do with animals uses, what I call, the clicker perspective. It’s not, however, always clicker training per se. Much of the time I don’t use the clicker – a sharp sound that marks the moment the animal has done the right thing, which is then followed by a reward. That’s just a technique (albeit a very effective one); it’s the theory behind that technique that matters.

One of the tenets of “positive reinforcement training” is to focus on the desired behavior. Rather than force a change in what you don’t want, you train behavior that you do. Rather than thinking “don’t do that” you think “do this.” For example, it’s so frustrating when you bring your horse in from their paddock and instead of going along with you, they drag you over to a patch of grass. You yank the horse’s head up, they jerk it back down. Yanking solves the problem momentarily but doesn’t train the behavior you do want. So, rather than thinking, Stop dragging me around you darn horse!, think I want you to lead quietly next to me and then train for that doable behavior. In this example rather than pulling your horse away from the grass, teach a head up and reward for polite walking. This clicker perspective entails defining and training for behavior you want (rather than being reactive to behavior you don’t want.) It might seem a subtle difference. It’s not.

The first step is to honestly observe what’s going on. This is more complicated and difficult than you might think. Notice that I said honestly observe, because it’s often hard to admit what issues you really have. Behavior problems rarely start where you think they do. Let’s take the example of a horse that is head shy and doesn’t want the bridle put on. I’m a skilled enough trainer to be able to use a clicker and rewards to teach the horse to stand calmly and accept the putting on and wearing of that gear. But, the horse has motivation for that head shy behavior, and if I don’t address the root cause the tension will erupt elsewhere. I want to begin training from a place of safety and comfort for the horse – not try to override their fear, pain or anger. That’s where the honesty comes in. How far back do you have to go to find your horse’s safe place?

Last year I was asked to help with Zak, a Lusitano gelding. Like many talented and expensive horses, he’d been trained intensively and quickly, and pushed to do the hard work of upper level dressage. He wore a double bridle. His trainer wore spurs and carried a whip. Zak had a reputation for being a stand-offish horse that pinned his ears at humans. He wasn’t dangerous, but he wasn’t a horse that you could relax around. His owner knew that a change was necessary for his (and her) happiness. I helped her to find a barn where they could develop a new relationship. I spent time with Zak when he arrived there and I observed how he was with his owner.

During grooming Zak was either indifferent or actively showed what he thought about the world with a wrinkled nose and pinned ears. The first week in his new barn, I observed as the owner tacked him up. He was standing neutrally quiet in the aisle when he heard his owner, out of sight, in the tack room, pick up the bridle. It jingled. Zak tensed his neck and pinned his ears. We paid attention to that message from him. A new bridle and a simple, softer bit was purchased. His attitude changed and his bridling behavior no longer had to be fixed.

Over the last year I’ve spent a lot of time grooming and conversing with Zak. I’ve asked him what he likes. It turns out that what he really, really wants is to have his ears scratched. I’ve found his comfort zone.

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It also became apparent to me that Zak is quite particular about which brushes he wants to be groomed with. I suggested new ones, which his owner purchased and now Zak loves being touched.

In the last year, Zak’s eye has softened.

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He interacts with humans in a friendly way. When I say good-bye, he asks me to stay.

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The owner is in the process of retraining him using positive reinforcement and the protocols of clicker training. This is what his owner recently wrote me about Zak:

Thanks for all the ways you’re helping with his rehabilitation. You may have been the first ever 100% safe person Zak has met in his life.

That’s one of the best compliments I’ve ever received.

Whenever I work with an animal (or human!) I ask myself if we are starting from a safe place. That sort of relationship is rewarding on it’s own, and it’s fruitful when pursuing a competitive endeavor. Can I brag here? My small, untraditional dressage horse continues to successfully compete at recognized shows. Last weekend we had the 6th highest score of the day, and placed 1st and 3rd in our two classes.

Letter Perfect Farm 2016 USEF/USDF Recognized Level 1 Show #1 Competition # 329242

 

Tonka doesn’t have the flash of the big horses, but we make up for it in correctness and flow. Dressage is hard work, physically and mentally. I push us both to be athletic and in sync, but never by compromising our relationship. I continue to train without spurs, a whip or severe noseband. Much time is spent in the saddle, but our success starts well before the horse is tacked up, in that safe place.

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4 thoughts on “Starting From a Safe Place

  • Tracy

    Well! Blue certainly suits Tonka! My congratulations to you, Terry. Winning or placing high at these events is so much harder than it looks. And there is so much more to it than a horse trotting around politely. I know you’ve seen what I’ve seen: top of the line dressage horses strapped, schooled, spurred and bitted into submission. Their worried eyes and tense faces break my heart. Every once in a while at some A rated show you see a beautiful and elegant horse just snap at the physical and mental stress of it all, bucking or hopping in frustration and rebellion. (My heart also bleeds for the “rogue elephants” that finally go nuts after so much abuse for years, and the “trained dolphins and whales” that are confined, controlled and denied everything that is natural. But these are tales for another day.)

    This is why I often comment on how wonderful it is to see Tonka’s open and unafraid expression, not to mention his obvious physical beauty. A relaxed and truly willing dressage horse is a rare thing.. From what you’ve written about him, Tonka is fundamentally sound, and well put together, and enjoys your partnership. Does it get any better than this? The sky’s the limit for you two crazy kids. 🙂

    As for the “safe place” concept…you’re so right! I’ve mentioned an ex-racer that was so sensitive I couldn’t put a brush on his skin, even a soft finishing brush, for months. I took it down to zero and had to groom him with a sheepskin car washing mitt. It didn’t do a great job, but I had to start somewhere. I would rub him gently, give a peppermint. Rub him a bit more, give a carrot. Rub his legs, hand him a slice of apple. And stop altogether after ten minutes. Within a few weeks, I could taper off the food rewards because he no longer saw grooming sessions as uncomfortable. Eventually he loved being groomed, although I only used soft brushes and never a curry comb. Crusted dirt was handled with warm water and terry rags. I knew I’d solved this issue when one day he held his head out to have me rub a rag all over his face and ears when the flies made him itchy. I took such care bridling him as both his teeth and ears were triggers. Painting the bit with a tiny bit of molasses and being so, so gentle eventually got him over this, but I never did let anyone else bridle him. A year after I bought him off the track, I was able to sell him as a pleasure horse and the poor (and so lovely) woman who bought him had to put up with two weeks of ‘handling coaching’ from me before I let her take possession. And I’m not sorry!

    • Terry Golson Post author

      I, too, have a hard time watching much of the dressage at the shows, but I continue to believe that it can be trained and ridden in a way that is the closest thing that one can get to the experience of being a centaur. As long as I can keep doing it on my terms, I will.
      LOVE your story. I always like to watch a client groom their horse. I figure if they’re not able to pay attention to and respond to what the horse is telling them then, that they’ll have no more success at it in the saddle. I’ve seen several relationships transformed using the cactus cloth mitt (there’s one on my amazon sidebar.)

  • Gin

    My congratulations to you and Tonka also. Tonka really does look good in blue! Tonka is one lucky horse! There isn’t really dressage here in my area, it’s all western riding, trail riding, team penning, etc. So I don’t know a lot about dressage except what I see on TV. But I do know it takes a lot of practice and discipline.
    I know this is about horses, but I just have to say watching your Hencam website got me to thinking I needed chickens again. And it sure is whole lot easier to clean up after 5 chickens than 5 horses!!